Originally Posted by mylydiamy
Thanks. If I decide to separate she would keep the house while I am still paying for the mortgage and other bills. And I would living in a shitty one bedroom apertment
That is true, but the longer you prolong an actual divorce the greater likelihood that she will end up in another serious relationship. Sounds like your wife is the kind of woman that needs someone in her life to take care of her? If so, maybe she'll end up re-married sooner rather than later if it drags out.
My best friend just completed his divorce a few weeks ago and was lamenting how his life became much, much more difficult financially. His ex is now in a better position and has her freedom, the house and the kids. Sadly, life is not very fair in these situations.