So I finally picked my options
I didn't upgrade any kitchen appliances but I chose black instead of white. However I did an upgrade for the washer and dryer to something better and its also HE. Maybe sometime later I want to upgrade all the appliance with Miele.
Since my living room/kitchen is open concept my kitchen will have hardwood floors.
I didn't do any upgrades to the cabinet just plain flat design I don't like mouldings but upgraded the handles.
Just to wire in a surround sound at the rear is $300!