Yes, they have gotten too big and incredibly arrogant. If Hewlett Packard decided not to partner with Apple to help them release the iPod and iTunes, Apple would have probably gone broke. Most people don't know that the iPod was co-lauched with Hewett-Packard and HP put iTunes on every computer shipped. At the time HP was and still is the worlds largest computer manufacture.
BTW: have you ever seen an HP iPod. They do exist.