E90 328i wagon. Nothing else listed will come close to driver experience. Not even close. For that matter, nothing will come close in this segment.
Find one with sports package(deal breaker for me), 6 speed manual and xenons. Enjoy.
If it is a 2009 or later make sure it has logic 7 stereo if audio is important to you. Pre 09 it was standard equipment.
And I hate idrive.