My wife and I are looking here soon as well and we are between the:
Acura MDX - bad gas mileage but awesome looks
Infiniti JX - not the fastest but a lot of bang for your buck
Ford Explorer - Sport has 360ish HP!!! and tons of tech. w/sync!
335i E90 | BMS DCI | Black Matte Grill | JB4 | Logic 7 | Sport | Premium | Cold |