Entertaining read as always Andrew!
A (young) friend of mine is on his second XJ and loves them to bits!!
Despite all you say, I reckon you will have problems prising the RRS away from your other half.....once they get used to the 4x4 experience its very hard to convince them to try something else.... voe!!
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