I got a set of 18MM Spacers from RS Technik w/ extended lugs. Used for about 1k miles then I got a new set of wheels. They're basically brand new, no issues. $100 Shipped!
Other set is 15MM Spacers from H&R, purchased and mounted less than 500 miles ago. These also come with extended lugs. Selling these for 100 shipped as well.
Thanks for looking guys!