this took me all of 5 seconds to find in the manual:
on page 22 of the Opening and Closing section;
again you can donwload the manual on BMW website if you don't have a hard copy, but I just read the entire procedure in literally 5 seconds but I am too hard headed to post it here for you, just know it's in there, now go find it.
so I stand by my comments. And if you really did exhaustive searching (including reading the manual, then I feel bad for you that you cannot figure it out yoruself). If your "Republican" comment is slanderous I really feel bad if after all this you're a representation of the Liberal party. Go call the dealer from your Obama phone and have them tow the car there for you and let them change the settings, obviously you need a hand