Originally Posted by Blindside_137
I agree. I am committed and not weighing the pros and cons. What makes it difficult is the uncertainty in both of our futures, we may never be living in the same state for a long time, possibly ever, in which case it won't work out.
If you are committed to each other, at some point, you have to decide that enough is enough and that you're going to live near each other (if not just move in together). Someone might have to compromise some of their career/school/etc. priorities to make this happen.