Should be in Vendor feedback area first.
Were the wheels on Black Friday marked as a group buy? If so pretty common thing to wait and if enough do not get in they cancel, been down that road before with others places. If not then they should have told you so!
Personally if I need something I buy local so it's cash and carry. Sorry to hear your problems.
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