On the E92 there is a designated charge point with a black plastic cover under the bonnet,it's to the left as you face the car.
To the side of this on the wing there is also an earthing point.
An overnight charge should be sufficient.
A flat/on the way to flat battery can display itself in all manner of ways,so your problems could well be associated with the battery.
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