Personally, I'd go apex for the weight savings & strength. Vmr probably wins the looks contest, but that's my number 2 behind weight & strength when I look at wheels. I'm also not of the camp that thinks 19s are necessary to make our car look good. if you're thinking 18s, I'd go with the apex, but I don't believe that they have a 19" option.
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