I don't know how bad your car is but I would recommend you use the following.
Wash, De-Iron and Clay, Menzerna SIP (IS1500) on LC white pad then finish down with Menzerna SF4000 on LC Black pad. IPA wipe down then proceed to wax/sealant.
or a more aggressive approach
Wash, De-Iron and Clay, Meguiars D300 on MF pad (speed 4) then finish down with SF4000. IPA wipe down then proceed to wax/sealant.
If you must use the product you have, you could try this.
Wash->De-Iron and Clay->swirl remover->fine cut cleaner->wax/sealant.
What is absolute control???? Having the means and the abilities to exercise it at will but....chooses not to.