Certain color paint systems are more prone to surface defects in the BMW lines. Jet Black is one of them. The paint is super soft.
When it does scratch, it generally comes out with a mild approach ( pad and polish). It does takes a bit of experience to finish down_however.
I would recommend you look into a coating ( such as Opti-coat, Cquartz, GTechniq Crystal Lacquer ) after your paint has been corrected by a good detailer.
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