Chris, there's not a lot I can say that hasn't been said but my sincere sympathy for the situation you have found yourself in.
If I can add any value regarding selling your car it's that I have recently used weWANTanycar.com and found them to be thoroughly decent to deal with and the process was simple and as promised. Just be honest when describing the car to get your quote.
And it goes without saying, a small donation has been made and I hope things turn out for the best for you and your family.
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