Tragic story Chris,tugs at the heartstrings more so when children are involved.
It certainly put's ones own woes into perspective reading such stories,and you have my deepest sympathies.
I've just sold something on the forum,so I couldn't resist hitting a milestone figure on the 'Giving' page.
Stay strong,and do let us know if we can do anymore.
Never argue with an idiot on the internet. He will drag you down to his level and beat you with experience.