I guess the other problem may be that in a forum like this, people are quite serious enthusiasts, many are unlikely to be won over by a fairly basic spec car. It's a pretty one for sure, but no leather, no nav, no hi-fi and pretty small wheels, in what is (hard for me to say) not the most popular engine choice. Add in the fact it's only an SE and its unlikely that this is the best venue for it.
The ONLY reason I bought my 325i SE was because it had sport pack, leather and every toy under the sun.
Persevere with ebay you'll get there in the end
Out of interest, what are you hoping to replace it with?