Sorry to post something a little off topic, sorry about your car
I was speaking to my friend at BMW yesterday and he told me this story.
His customer was woken in the early hours by his engine revving on his M3, he jumped up only to see 4 blokes in his car, he called the police and shouted at them out the window, when he got down to the car they had bolted, he couldn't work out why the car wouldn't move, he worked out in the end because they was trying to be so quiet they hadn't shut the drivers door and this apparently stops the car staying in gear on new DCT boxes?? so he was very lucky lad!!