I ended up getting csl style M359 matte black in 18x8 and 18X9. I was able to use exisiting tires. Total cost 700.
Please see my other post with the pics of new wheels and where i got the wheels.
2008 E90 335i
Jet Black, Black Leatherette, Aluminum, Automatic, Paddle, Sport Package, Ipod/USB, Formula One Pinnacle Tint 35%, Depo Blackline, M3 reps front bumper, Black Gloss Grille, Matte Black M359, V1