Assuming you do get a summons...
Daughter phoned you in tears and due to the situation with your wife you sped home to get to her as fast as you could. Didn't think about anything else. Spill the beans about what has gone on, tell them how awful things have been - and really really think deep about it in court. Represent yourself. You're likely to get upset when telling this tale due to the legitimate emotion - and that's only going to work in your favour.
Explain that you need your license to get to work and you are a single parent now.
You'll NEVER get banned under these circumstances. It will be 6 points max.
You may as well use one shit situation to get out of another one fella.
Previously: 2003 Peugeot 206 1.6 8v | 2006 E90 320d M-Sport, 19" BBS CH, Full Ice-cold JL audio install, August 2010 Total BMW 6 page feature car. | 2003 Nissan 350Z GT Coupe 286BHP
Now:2010 E92 LCI 335d M-Sport