OP here. It's been two weeks since the accident. GEICO thinks the car is repairable. I will let update with the total costs to repair when I have that information. The Blue Book is $33,000 and repairs are thus far estimated at $17,000.
The fluid leaks are all coming from the broken radiator -- transmission fluid and water. No engine leak fortunately.
Anyway, I'll let you all know how I fare out of this. I do hope it's fixable actually and would rather it not be totaled. I could not afford to replace this car new and don't want to go the used route.
Thanks all for your replies thus far.
Jay (in San Antonio, TX)
2011 328i hard top convertible (E93), titanium silver with black interior, bamboo anthracite trim, iDrive, Navigation, Comfort Access.