You will save a LOT of money if you go for some nice aftermarket wheels. They'll be lighter too.
Save money, buy aftermarket wheels, and don't buy run flat tires.
In terms of ride comfort:
19" wheels + non-RFTs = 19" wheels + RFTs
...at least that was my case when I upgraded.
E92 335i: Space Grey|Coral Red|Aluminum Trim
Hold out for the BRZ STI or... Rocket Bunny FRS. Update: Scratch that. I've got a 2015 5.0/6MT with my name on it.