Okay, after getting input from you guys (thanks!), here is my revised list. Please double check for me before I order (will probably place an order on Monday or Tuesday):
1) Buy the wash and dry starter kit
from DI and wash per their instructions. Buy 2 buckets.
2) Buy Jetseal
and some extra applicator pads
(what are the two different sides for?) Put on a couple coats of Jet Seal and follow up with Natty's Blue
3) For wheels, P21S Total Auto Wash
+ MF cloths to get the grime off. Then follow up with Poorboy's Wheel Sealant
4) Get Poorboy's Spray & Wipe
QD to use in between washes and to get rid of bird droppings, bug smear, etc.