Originally Posted by ragingclue
Yes of course my kids will fight back; however, our fundamental views on the situation are where we disagree here. Yes, my kid will fight back against a bully, who simply imposes his will because it makes him feel better about himself.
So if you impose you will with force for self validation that's bad, but if you impose your will on others with force for other reasons its ok?
So motives are more important than actions?