Well, I took a few pictures and I have a couple of the original lever and the new one to clear up any doubts. The post you mentioned, #103, is for a 330i and not a 335i and I believe the Shift Levers are different in both kits... check realoem.com to be certain.
This is how the original lever looks like (I'm selling the OEM assembly
And this is how the one from the 335i SSK (which I installed) looks like:
This picture is taken from this thread, you can check part numbers and the realoem link there too: http://www.e90post.com/forums/showthread.php?t=354733
You can see that BOTH have the bent lever although they are slightly different.
Now these are the pictures of my SSK install. I bought the M-Tech perforated leather shift knob instead of the kit's one.
NEUTRAL from rear seat:
Neutral from exactly above:
3rd gear from above:
4th gear from above:
1st gear from above:
1st gear from the side: