Didn't mean to start shit in this thread guys. I'm just a tinkerer and like learning stuff on my own. So I thank everyone who dished out info (mathu.bala especially). Also appreciate Patrys for providing this service to people.
I agree with roadkillrob that Patrys probably isn't going to anything malicious with anyones laptop, BUT I also use Teamviewer at work (if thats the remote software he uses, think someone mentioned that) and I know for a fact that the screen doesn't need to blacked out if the person remoting in doesn't enable it....