Ownage..check the link I posted in my first post. The member got the options you are interested in.
Basically for the side marker, it only lights up when you have your signals on.
The stock way, the light stays on along with the angel eyes. Check the link and see the video posted.
You are paying pretty much for the guy to program the car (time and resources). A deposit has to be paid for the tool but will be returned once the module is shipped back.
Now that I know what people are looking for, I can get him to give me a price. I was asking for about 6 things and he gave me a rough cost of $150. Hopefully he can give a better rate now that we have people interested.