I remember when you got this setup to retrofit BT - I think you found out (as I did) that cars with build date of 2/2009 do not include the prewiring. Although it was uncertain to me at first, since it was repeatedly reported that cars up 2/2009 had the prewiring (apparently it is up to, but not including 2/2009 build cars).
I have the MULF2 installed in my car underneath where the TCU usually goes (as I have the USB interface) which has the large blue connector, black/green fiber optic, & the USB coax - but no loose large white connector and the rest of the TCU wiring. I do have a bundle of still wrapped wires coming off same harness as going to MULF2 - but I think they are for the optional CD Changer.
You were gonna go with the mObridge - did you finally go that route, and how did it work out? EAS lists mObridge for 2006-2008 cars only?
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