yes that would drive me nuts, but then again (not being sexist just a realist) most women near your car = disaster.
you must protect paint from all onslaughts.
my girlfriends adorable and hugely frustrating (at times, others amazing) 5 year old saw my car which she fondly calls the Red Dragon, ran at it and smacked into it and rolled over the hood trying to hug it.
I immediately picked her up by her jacket and told 'dont ever do that again...I know you ike the car but you dont touch peoples cars....ever'
and then hugged her.
that shit drove me nuts though. She didnt know any better, just an excited 5 year old.