Finally finished the install. I just need to get it activated. An indy shop here in Phoenix will do it for $49.
This install was very time consuming and frustrating. A big PITA. If I had to do it over again I would pass on it.
The back of the fuse panel on my 2010 is different than what is in the instructions. I had an indy bmw shop wire this for me since the location on the instructions didn't exist. The rest was pretty easy, just time consuming.
If anyone is doing this install I can show you where to plug in the alarm cable if needed. Feel free to PM me with any questions.