Lea .... I've seen the photo's of your car but can't really make out the mesh in the rear bumper. any chance of posting a clearer pic of the mod.
4" LCD could work in with your sunvisors .... just a thougth.
I don't mind the eyelids. Not something I'd do but they look good and give the car a unique personality.
Where are you getting the speaker rings from. I've been looking for something like that as well.