Realization will take place when you ride with someone who can do it better than you and can explain it in a way that makes sense to you.
Funny how someone wanted to know if Hack could drive. Good question but immaterial as what he is saying is true albeit with some frustration sprinkled throughout.
I've read many times "suspension tuning is a black art". I believe it. As Hack said (in so many words) there is no one setup for every driver. He used the words dynamic and variable.