Yeah the cold weather package is nice. Only other option I might have spent money for is Comfort Access, really cool and only $500. Oh well - I need something to look forward for in my next BMW lol.
If you found an Msport 335 with a standard transmission on the lot, you are doing VERY good ... that's a rare combo. I had to custom order (~2 months, not that bad really), there were a grand total of three 335i coupes with a manual transmission and M sport east of the Mississippi. Not many people buy standard transmissions anymore ... even on a BMW.
At West German I talked to Greg - good guy, he was very accommodating.
As for how to deal with the dealer regarding pricing ... check this out:
Let us know what happens