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Originally Posted by shah269
But the girl you married "was your type" as in you are turned on by her right?
I mean I have tried dating women who are not my type...and hell even if she was well to do.....as they say you just can't push rope.
I guess what they say about female sexuality being "malleable" is right.
While maybe we men are a little more black and white.
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Someday you might realize that the sexiest part of a woman is her brain. No woman, no matter how much she maintains herself, will look like a 25 year-old forever. The actresses in Hollywood who have all the money and time in the world still can't keep a youthful appearance forever. If you want to keep dating 25 year-olds forever, you'd better be rich and/or famous. And even then, you'll know that those are hollow relationships.
A few of my friends never made the transition from how they were dating in their 20's to how they should go about looking for a wife. Before they'd even get to know (or sometimes meet) a girl, they'd nitpick everything about her to the point where any potential relationship was doomed. They have successful careers, money, etc., but can't understand how to actually have a serious relationship. You really don't want to be the guy pushing 40 creeping on the 20-something girls at the club.
I'm not saying that you should date a woman you're not attracted to, rather I'm suggesting you change what it means for you to be attracted to someone. This isn't an easy thing to do, since it requires a substantial mental re-alignment. Although, my guess is that this is something along the lines of what some of your friends have been telling you. We tell this to my friends who are stuck in perpetual "25 year-old mode" all the time, but they just can't grok it.