David,
I have the LG vx8700 and it works like a charm. It sends my entire phonebook to the radio. The only thing I had to program were some voice commands to dial the people I call most. Here is a verizon link which has the compatibility of every phone. You will find this list VERY USEFUL! The chart that BMW shows only has a few phones.
http://support.vzw.com/how_to_use/bl...h_car_kit.html