[IbanezGod]

Originally Posted by boymonkey

Just tell him the main points you've made here in the most considerate way possible. Tell him that you value his friendship and thinks of him as a best friend, that's why you chose him. Let him understand that other people had to and continues to step up because he hasn't been fulfilling the expectations of a best man. And because someone else has put in the work, you should give the honor of the best man to that person, etc. And then go back to the positive things like you value his friendship and all of the good things about him. Always sandwich criticism with praise.

thank you brotha