Gone with her. A friend had a similar situation. The significant other was busted, lost their job, and wasnt able to provide for the family. Got help and everything was better for a couple years and now they're back on the pills and the same thing has happened. If you dont want to deal with this behavior down the road, dump her now and move on.
I have a simple rule for relationships that saves me from ongoing agonizing relationships. You fuck up big once and you're gone. Cheating, drugs, abuse, or anything big argument that will come back down the road to fuck things up are all grounds for terminating the relationship.
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