@silverbmwz3 : Many have taken the time to explain why it is happening, and suggest how to avoid the same responses in the future. It is not sugar coated as Carlos has dismissed off-hand most of those comments previously. But neither is it trying to be insensitive.
His social awareness skills need brushing up. (euphemistically speaking here)
If he goes yet again to stick his hand in the fire he has learned nothing. I hope he is smarter than that. I hope that is what he can take with him from this episode.
Each forum has its own tone. That forum is hardly the vicar's teaparty - more thigh-slapping, rough backroom barracks banter with acerbic wit. We (You, I and Carlos) know that. He chooses to post in that environment.
If you want to go on a single handed sociological crusade to get all those uncouth ruffians to be poilte to each other you'll have no time to post on here
And life would be a little more homogeneous.
D.