i've just washed my car and doing what you did on ur vid I do get 90% of the same result so its not too bad. its not as good on my bonnet as the vids on the net. i still need to pat dry after rinsing her clean.
With 3 coats of exo it will bead better than 2 c1 and 1 exo.
You got ur missis to help!! you've got a keeper there bud