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Originally Posted by bosstones
In all reality, you can't force someone, friend or not, to not see someone. In all things, you can educate/inform a person, but not force them to decide. Given that, you can't make your friend choose between you and her. You've spoken your part but, ultimately, it's up to him to decide. He already wanted to get into a relationship with her and now has what he wanted. When it doesn't work out, see what he does/says then.
Also......sounds like your friend isn't really a friend, either. His judgement is clouded. Say buh-bye to them both, IMO. He has sunk to her level. It sucks to lose a friend, but move on and enjoy your life.
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i agree with this. it's better to just provide constructive advice and let the two of them decide what they want to do on their own. if they fail in their relationship for the reasons you provided to them, then they can only blame themselves. people need to learn from their experiences. sometimes you need to let them make their mistakes.