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Obviously if what the OP wrote is true, then these people deserve to be burned at the stake....BUT...

before you crucify a business, you need to get the other side of the story. I would solicit a response from the ownership of this particular dealer before you go too far. Whether or not people support the current President's policies with regards to the War in Iraq, nearly 100% of people support our military including ME (I have two relatives stationed in Kuwait and Baghdad).

The idea that anyone would conduct themselves in the way that the OP described is really surprising to me. I can't imagine a person reacting in that way under any circumstances, much less at a BMW dealership...