Got it. Found it on north American motoring.
Parking Lights
KALTUE_SL_1_M1_14_M2_41
WARMUE_SL_1_M1_14_M2_41
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KALTUE_SL_2_M1_16_M1_18
WARMUE_SL_2_M1_16_M1_18
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taken from here:
http://www.northamericanmotoring.com...334-post1.html
Thanks Steven for helping me with the BMW tool and finding out that I already had a FRM3! Both really helped a great deal and will make my life much easier in the future.