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      08-17-2012, 10:15 AM   #1
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Weird friendzone/girl issue...

Tought i was friendzoned by some girl i didnt have enough time for a few months ago. I still kept in touch with her but mostly by txt and i kept it as brief as it could be (I was really busy with work and stuff). Many times she would imply that she was so happy to have met me and that she values my friendship and stuff so i never really cared about trying or putting efforts into seing her.

I saw her yesterday night at Terasse bonsecour and she was with a few of her girlfriends having drinks and supper while i was there with an other girl.

Today... i get a hate message telling me that i am an asshole for making her feel like we had something going on and that i didnt value our friendship and that i was just like every single other guy she's met...

Thing is... we never had anything going on... never hugged, never kissed, never fucked so WTF...

How would you deal with this ? simple pms ? or was i not even in the friendzone ? or is she just an attention whore ?
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      08-17-2012, 10:24 AM   #2
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attention whore.
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Simple text to her..... If you wanted to date me, you wouldn't play stupid games making me think I was in the friendzone.

I also wouldn't date her after that text, she seems like the insane type.
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      08-17-2012, 10:41 AM   #4
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ignore it, not sure why people choose to address people's craziness. If you attempt to even address this you will end in the rat hole that she dragging you down.
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She's a moron basically...

She probably just wanted you to stick around until it was convenient for her, but since she saw you with another chick she got all mad that her rebound guy was spoken for or whatever she thought you were. Kick her to the curb.
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Delete her from your life.
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      08-17-2012, 11:09 AM   #7
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Simple text to her..... If you wanted to date me, you wouldn't play stupid games making me think I was in the friendzone.

I also wouldn't date her after that text, she seems like the insane type.
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      08-17-2012, 11:20 AM   #8
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Nothing weird about it. Bitches be crazy. Don't get me wrong, there are some crazy dudes out there, but I guarantee you there are more bi-polar women than men. I have even had women ADMIT that women are crazy.
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      08-17-2012, 11:23 AM   #9
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I feel ALL people are crazy, it's just to what extent.
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      08-17-2012, 12:29 PM   #10
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Crazy girl is crazy.

Do not buy into the crazy. Simple txt back saying you have no idea what she is talking about.
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      08-17-2012, 12:49 PM   #11
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Crazy girl is crazy.

Do not buy into the crazy. Simple txt back saying you have no idea what she is talking about.
This! tell her we are friends!
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      08-17-2012, 01:14 PM   #12
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Responding back is like feeding the trolls on the web, Honesty, I would ignore it and go on your way, you do not want to feed into the craziness. Her text is design to invoke some sort of response out of you, good or bad it still attention. Unless your into this kind of thing and see how much more crazy you can make her.
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      08-17-2012, 01:26 PM   #13
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Funny fact is that once my collegue was trying to hook me up with a girl at work which ended up being 7 years older then me and when i had told her about it she said : You should go for it...

In my head, i was deep in the friend zone hence why i never bothered.
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It depends on what you want out of it. If you still want to go out with her, then go for it. Otherwise, tell her something like you value your friendship with her.
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Dodged a bullet there! On to the next one!
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Only thing I can think of that will up the crazy factor would be for you to text her proposing marriage. If she says yes, run for the hills.
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seeing that I live in Montreal too, send her this way, I'll give her the tender love and care she craves
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seeing that I live in Montreal too, send her this way, I'll give her the tender love and care she craves
Anthony you actually know me IRL lol

Nino's bbq... gumball in quebec city... I had the blue 325ci so let's see if you replace my name
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dat bish cray
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definately a crazy bitch, if she is acting like that right now can you even imagine how she would be if you put a label on it. Id stay away from that

and eh... for sport, any pics of said crazy chic?
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