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      12-08-2012, 06:15 PM   #67
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Wow. She sounds as shallow as you.

You guys were a great match! Too bad it didn't work out.
Well I would now lower my standards to marry a women just to hedge my bets on her cheating on me or being able to point at myself and say "this is the best you ever got"

But it did open my eyes a bit and makes goos sense.
Maybe, many women, date hot but marry so so to ensure that they are in the power position.
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      12-08-2012, 07:55 PM   #68
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OK that said I was having a drink with an X GF last night after yoga class and she put it this way to me.
"Women date the hot guys, but in the end marry the ugly guys."
damn, sounds like you hang out with people of Wal-Mart.

and i didn't think it could get worse from listening you douche it up with all your gay friends....
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This thread makes me lol
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      12-09-2012, 03:21 AM   #70
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God doesn't exist!
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      12-09-2012, 09:25 AM   #71
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damn, sounds like you hang out with people of Wal-Mart.

and i didn't think it could get worse from listening you douche it up with all your gay friends....
Shah, Litos is getting jealous - better invite him to your gay friends gatherings next time!
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^^^ hey guys, i found the gay guy !!!!
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FYI, the girl isnt half afghan half asian haha Shes "hazara". And you're damn stupid for liking a hazara girl, they are the ugliest ethnic group in Afghanistan. You'd be better off with some Irani girl, they're better looking once you remove their body hair.
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God doesn't exist!
Yes He does.
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Yes He does.
No!
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No her mother is from Afghanistan and left in the early 70's and her father is from Hong Kong. She's very very beautiful. Gorgeous green eyes and very very exotic.
She has a very Olivia Wilde look going for her.

And it is what it is, after talking with my friend....yeah I can see why she is doing what she is doing. Though she was "tool food" she was always in charge when it came to the relationship. And well going for the so so guy....she is just ensuring that she wears the pants in the house.

And so I was wrong. I had incorrectly assumed that like most women she said she wanted one thing and ran for another....
http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_md...tmtno1_400.jpg

But turns out she knew what she wanted all along and knows how to get it.

And actually by talking about it here and with my friend....i see it now.
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whats the big deal I married a girl that is not m type.. the type of girl i dated was tool food. tatted up and dysfunctional. but I did not marry one.
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whats the big deal I married a girl that is not my type.. the type of girl i dated was tool food. tatted up and dysfunctional. but I did not marry one.
But the girl you married "was your type" as in you are turned on by her right?

I mean I have tried dating women who are not my type...and hell even if she was well to do.....as they say you just can't push rope.

I guess what they say about female sexuality being "malleable" is right.
While maybe we men are a little more black and white.
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But the girl you married "was your type" as in you are turned on by her right?

I mean I have tried dating women who are not my type...and hell even if she was well to do.....as they say you just can't push rope.

I guess what they say about female sexuality being "malleable" is right.
While maybe we men are a little more black and white.
Im a guy , it doesn't take much to turn me on. Big --s and round --s is all i need. but my wife doesn't have that. she's fresh from the motherland if you catch my drift. Anyways she makes a good wife and mother to our beautiful daughter. Thats all that matters.
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Oh mom found you a wife.....brother....never mind.
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      12-09-2012, 07:30 PM   #83
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But the girl you married "was your type" as in you are turned on by her right?

I mean I have tried dating women who are not my type...and hell even if she was well to do.....as they say you just can't push rope.

I guess what they say about female sexuality being "malleable" is right.
While maybe we men are a little more black and white.
Someday you might realize that the sexiest part of a woman is her brain. No woman, no matter how much she maintains herself, will look like a 25 year-old forever. The actresses in Hollywood who have all the money and time in the world still can't keep a youthful appearance forever. If you want to keep dating 25 year-olds forever, you'd better be rich and/or famous. And even then, you'll know that those are hollow relationships.

A few of my friends never made the transition from how they were dating in their 20's to how they should go about looking for a wife. Before they'd even get to know (or sometimes meet) a girl, they'd nitpick everything about her to the point where any potential relationship was doomed. They have successful careers, money, etc., but can't understand how to actually have a serious relationship. You really don't want to be the guy pushing 40 creeping on the 20-something girls at the club.

I'm not saying that you should date a woman you're not attracted to, rather I'm suggesting you change what it means for you to be attracted to someone. This isn't an easy thing to do, since it requires a substantial mental re-alignment. Although, my guess is that this is something along the lines of what some of your friends have been telling you. We tell this to my friends who are stuck in perpetual "25 year-old mode" all the time, but they just can't grok it.
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Hey don't get me wrong. I am turned on by smarts....but i can't see smarts from across the bar so she better be good looking!
Because let's face it if you could see her brains from the other side of the bar odds are she may be dead? or suffering from some massive trauma!
Me? Well for me I know what turns me on, educated and athletic.
I'm looking for a life partner and an equal.
And that's what confused me about my friend. She wasn't marry some one she saw an an equal but someone she saw as less than her.
And well now i can see why she did it. To ensure security and to maintain control
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And well now i can see why she did it. To ensure security and to maintain control
Both men and women have been doing this since forever. Some people are looking for a equal to share their lives. Some people are looking for someone that they can dominate.
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And I guess she can find security/control in that domination.
I see it now. Oh well can't wait for that wedding in SEA! Should be fun!
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Shah, you are that guy that no one really likes but no one is rude enough to tell you off. The guy that goes around and tells everyone at the wedding "Hey I banged her, poor guy taking my sloppy seconds." You will party and sleep around with college girls until you're 40 when you will realize all your past "friends" are off married and raising families. Meanwhile you are alone and girls are starting to not want to be with you because you have aged like wine in a foul barrel. You will end up alone or settling for a fat chick and your only response to those who laugh at you is that she never got passed around. Good luck with life you outstanding model of a douche bag.
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Shah, you are that guy that no one really likes but no one is rude enough to tell you off. The guy that goes around and tells everyone at the wedding "Hey I banged her, poor guy taking my sloppy seconds." You will party and sleep around with college girls until you're 40 when you will realize all your past "friends" are off married and raising families. Meanwhile you are alone and girls are starting to not want to be with you because you have aged like wine in a foul barrel. You will end up alone or settling for a fat chick and your only response to those who laugh at you is that she never got passed around. Good luck with life you outstanding model of a douche bag.
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