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      02-08-2013, 12:32 PM   #45
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drama queen..

you sound like one of my friends. get over it and just live
More than the drama, i like to hear different perspectives to look at it. I take yours as one.
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Life always has its ups and downs, bud. We've all been there. Being alive is a wonderful privlege and a rare and brief opportunity. Squeeze all you can out of it! If it's getting dull, it's on you to make it exciting. The stuff like a house and a BMW can bring some limited happiness, but ulitmatily, a fulfilling life is about 3 things

1) The experiences you have. Push your comfort zone and try new things. Introverted? Sign up for some dance lessons and meet women there, for example

2) Our interactions with other people. Dating websites helped me come out of my shell with women, and my guy friends are activity partners (like cycling friends). Just make sure you go into interactions, like a first date, with NO EXPECTATIONS. You can't force the time you find "the one". Just find whatever value there is in every interaction you have and expect nothing more.

3) Achieving your goals and expanding your knowledge. Set a goal, break it into small pieces, and hold yourself accountable to making progress. Learn new things. Not only do these feel good, but they make you a much more attractive person to others.

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Hey man, kind of in the same boat, girls wise. I just turned 30 and in the Indian culture you are looked as a disappointment if not married. Life sucks but you know what I know some very un athletic and not even good looking people that pull girls and have tons of friends. It's a little to do with your attitude and charisma, when you walk in a room, walk in with a confident smile. Read the Game its not only for how to mack on girls, but general confidence. It helped me a lot.
Yea, I m a desi too. That adds up as well. Part of the problem is I can't mingle well with desi's cuz my approach is pretty straight forward. And the humor is the hard part. My confidence level goes low, when I try to be as humble as possible to be amongst them cuz I am not me then.

Well, I guess I gave out more than I have to.
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      02-08-2013, 12:44 PM   #48
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Life always has its ups and downs, bud. We've all been there. Life is wonderful and if it's getting dull, it's on you to make it exciting. The stuff like a house and a BMW can bring some limited happiness, but ulitmatily, a fufilling life is about 3 things

1) The experiences you have. Push your comfort zone and try new things. Introverted? Sign up for some dance lessons and meet women there, for example

2) Our interactions with other people. Dating websites helped me come out of my shell with women, and my guy friends are activity partners (like cycling friends). Just make sure you go into interactions, like a first date, with NO EXPECTATIONS. You can't force the time you find "the one". Just find whatever value there is in every interaction you have and expect nothing more.

3) Achieving your goals and expanding your knowledge. Set a goal, break it into small pieces, and hold yourself accountable to making progress. Learn new things. Not only do these feel good, but they make you a much more attractive person to others.

Very well put, bud. Thx
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Sure thing. You're also extrodrinarily fortunate to be healthy, intelligent, and live in a 1st world country at the dawn of the 21st century. You're at the tip of the spear with the opportunity to live the wildest dreams of all those that came before you. You owe it to yourself and to them to squeeze all you can out of this life! Carpe' diem


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who needs friends. spend a few grand and get a mail order bride. u got everything else besides that.
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More than the drama, i like to hear different perspectives to look at it. I take yours as one.
Sorry for being an ass mate. I'm a dick at night and an angel in the day lol

But seriously, the more you think about it, the more you act it. Just live.

That said, when I moved cities in my uni days, I had no friends for about a year. Then I went to gym and met new people. People come and go, just have to get used to it..
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It's cool, been there done that....even had a plan to punch out....a friend saved me...I owe him my life.
Check your emails, maybe you can find that breath you need...that moment to just relax.
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who needs friends. spend a few grand and get a mail order bride. u got everything else besides that.
I knew this post would lure him in
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you guys really want Shah to derail this thread
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I knew this post would lure him in
Op should go out and test drive some exotics for a day. he might feel better . (whispering) Jetfalcon. Lambo...Jetfalcon....
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It's cool, been there done that....even had a plan to punch out....a friend saved me...I owe him my life.
Check your emails, maybe you can find that breath you need...that moment to just relax.
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Sorry for being an ass mate. I'm a dick at night and an angel in the day lol

But seriously, the more you think about it, the more you act it. Just live.

That said, when I moved cities in my uni days, I had no friends for about a year. Then I went to gym and met new people. People come and go, just have to get used to it..
True. After reading most of the comments here, I am bit relieved. We all go to bed whining about things that we don't have and not realizing one's we do.
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Op should go out and test drive some exotics for a day. he might feel better . (whispering) Jetfalcon. Lambo...Jetfalcon....


I miss his/her/it posts lol
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True. After reading most of the comments here, I am bit relieved. We all go to bed whining about things that we don't have and not realizing one's we do.
Cheers
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It's cool, been there done that....even had a plan to punch out....a friend saved me...I owe him my life.
Check your emails, maybe you can find that breath you need...that moment to just relax...namaste
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Got your email. Thnx for the offer to jump!
Do I see a bromance in the making?
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Op should go out and test drive some exotics for a day. he might feel better . (whispering) Jetfalcon. Lambo...Jetfalcon....
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I miss his/her/it posts lol
Those were the days..
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Every time you feel depressed about not having Mrs. Right, just think of those you know or here about on this forum who found Mrs. Right and Mrs. Right for some reason doesn't love you anymore. She decides to divorce you, takes all your assets, half the money your making at your high paying job, and on top of that paying her $4000 a month in alimony. At the same time your paying her she has a live in boyfriend she's bangin' and your supporting the boyfriend also that's sticking his thing in your ex woman. So think about this it could be a lot worse. Now I'm 34 not married so this isn't my circumstance, but that's what I think about. Girls can change their mind in a split second. This should do the trick. Thank you and good bye
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