[carve]

Originally Posted by R Grubba Balls

interesting thread guys... no insults intended, to each his own right? you stay outta my hookars and i'll stay away from your sluts

Sure. I'll keep demand for hookers lower, and you make me look even better to all the quality women who wonder where the good men are.

I think there really are a lot of crappy guys out there. I was on a date a few weeks ago with a young women who'd been burned by bad guys a few times. We went out, improvised a great time (including a fast drive in my 335i up a windy road to a beautiful overlook of the city- the same road as in my avatar pic) Later in the date, she kept asking "what's wrong with you!?"...wondering what the catch was. I'd come up with some of my imperfections, such as a tendency to over-think things and I'm divorced, but she wouldn't buy that those little things were it.

I met a friend of the 23 year old I've been dating a while. This girl has been playing it totally cool, but her friend, who had had a few drinks, blew it. "Oh- so nice to FINALLY meet you....She talks about you ALL the time...Wow- he really is just as you described". She turned bright red- adorable. Definitely makes me feel fantastic though.

[Comet]

I understand people who want a threesome but don't have the game for it and pay two chicks to do it.

[MediaArtist]

Originally Posted by Lute

Or given up, the chase is 90% of the fun. Any numpty can pay for it. Satisification is having the game to get it gratis

Also let's be honest. Any woman who is being "paid" to have sex with you is going to have absolutely no passion, and will fake everything just to get you to get off of her as quickly as possible.

When a woman really wants it from you, sex is just different. That's the only sex I want, where she actually wants to jump you. Not because you're handing her rent money the deed is done.

Anyone who has had sex with a woman who is in love with you knows the difference. You can see it, and "feel" it.

[Litos]

Originally Posted by MediaArtist

Anyone who has had sex with a woman who is in love with you knows the difference. You can see it, and "feel" it.

dat married life.

jizzing at the same hasn't gotten old even after almost 7 years of marriage...

[MediaArtist]

Originally Posted by Litos

dat married life.

jizzing at the same hasn't gotten old even after almost 7 years of marriage...

Yup. I like how the youngsters like to dump on marriage around these boards, but there's nothing like a woman who KNOWS how to turn every "knob", and knows every intricacy about how to make you go wild. That only comes from years of experimentation, and experience with each other.

Honestly, 1st time sex is just awkward in comparison.

[carve]

Originally Posted by MediaArtist

When a woman really wants it from you, sex is just different. That's the only sex I want, where she actually wants to jump you. Not because you're handing her rent money the deed is done.

This. A woman is a lot more than a place to put my dick (not that that aspect isn't important). LOL...I probably wouldn't even be able to get it up for a woman who didn't actually want me and has been exposed to who-knows-what? It's just not that interesting and too risky. I'd rather just go home and please myself.

[Templar]

Actually glad to see this thread heading in the right direction. I agree with the above three posters.

[Mr Tonka]

Originally Posted by Templar

Actually glad to see this thread heading in the right direction. I agree with the above three posters.

Same here. My 10 year aniversary is coming up in 8 days.

[shah269]

=)
That's awesome!
=)

[Litos]

Originally Posted by MediaArtist

Yup. I like how the youngsters like to dump on marriage around these boards, but there's nothing like a woman who KNOWS how to turn every "knob", and knows every intricacy about how to make you go wild. That only comes from years of experimentation, and experience with each other.

Originally Posted by carve

This. A woman is a lot more than a place to put my dick (not that that aspect isn't important). LOL...I probably wouldn't even be able to get it up for a woman who didn't actually want me and has been exposed to who-knows-what? It's just not that interesting and too risky. I'd rather just go home and please myself.

Originally Posted by Templar

Actually glad to see this thread heading in the right direction. I agree with the above three posters.

Originally Posted by MP0WER

Same here. My 10 year aniversary is coming up in 8 days.

it's awesome how mature and civilized people can turn a thread around.....

it's brutally obvious why a bald fatty has no mate in his 30's....

[shah269]

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/...m-and-eharmony

And on the otherside you have this article.....I don't think I want to agree.......but I think she is right.

[shah269]

WOW!
OK just caught an interview with this woman and well...I have to say she is 100% right!
WE men are morons!

OK here is what he is saying and it is very hard to articulate because in with respect to women’s issues is it Rule 0.
So please sit and forgive my eloquence with respect to reiterating her thoughts.

What she is attempting to say is that the women attending this prestigious university are surrounded by well educated driven men of privilege. Be it financial or intellectual. And odds are nowhere in their lives will they be in a setting where they will be able to really find a man who is their equal. And once they graduate the men do what men do...we go for looks and curves over brains and stability.....which in effect is well....normal? However the university offers an artificial environment where by these women are on equal or better footing than their competitors. Furthermore, when you think about it....and as you guys have pointed out marrying your equal does in fact lead to a more stable and loving relationship? That said...we men do tend to value women who look more like this )( than women who look like () or | |
So as always the failure of the relationship and the establishment of equals in a stable partnership is the man’s fault...according to her.

So….is it still misogynistic or is it now man hating?
Well hate is a bad word....but she does think we are boneheads!

[Litos]

i'm just blessed i have an educated smoking hot wife that looks like this )( with tits like this ( . Y . )

did i mention that she cooks dinner every night - and when she's done cooking dinner, she immediately starts cooking lunch for me to take to work the next day, while she's also got a load in the washer and helping my son with homework !?!?

gaaaah, i love being mexican.....

[Mr Tonka]

Originally Posted by Litos

i'm just blessed i have an educated smoking hot wife that looks like this )( with tits like this ( . Y . )

did i mention that she cooks dinner every night - and when she's done cooking dinner, she immediately starts cooking lunch for me to take to work the next day, while she's also got a load in the washer and helping my son with homework !?!?

gaaaah, i love being mexican.....

was just thinking the same thing, minus the mexican thing.

Glad i got the win/win with my wife as well.

[shah269]

=)
may many of us be as lucky as you guys one day!
=)

[Litos]

i soooooo get to hit that lol.....

[Ammonia]

Originally Posted by Litos

dat married life.

jizzing at the same hasn't gotten old even after almost 7 years of marriage...

+1

I had a successful "player" period of time, but I'm done. Not knocking anyone who doesn't like commitment and enjoys different women, I did too. Just came to a point where it became pretty empty for me.

Happily married at 25, and the sex keeps getting better and better

[MediaArtist]

You have a beautiful wife Litos. One more for the marriage score board.

[Litos]

Originally Posted by Lute

How did we go from mid 30s and single to over 50 and married?

aarrrrghghgh - i'm only 33.

been married since i was 26...

[Endless619]

Originally Posted by shah269

And you see anything here about fat chicks or engineering?
But it is a dating thread about an article i read and thought would be fun to share.

You don't like it...don't read it.

Now that said...I don't get it....I've dated women a solid 15 years older than me....hey ti's fun. I don't see why a 35yo woman can't or shouldn't date a 25yo guy?
I wonder if the author ever thought of that when she was looking for a guy?

This is an easy one. Most boys 16-29 aren't established, living at home, play around, don't know what they want and thus older women in their 30s have no time for bullshit, drama, sleeping around, etc. I dont blame them. I was immature in my 20s and it was all about me. We were there.

Men 30-60 is where its at mentally and financially. They are a lot of the times established and about to retire and don't want games either. I know I don't.

Girls 18-29 are fun in the sack but thats all they have to offer really. I tend to avoid girls that age. 28-29 is pushing it. I see them as immature, materialistic, sleep around, and dont really care about other people or family. It seems to be Nieman Marcus this, Rockin Republic that... Gucci this and Louie Vuitton that... YAWN! LMAO.

I hate to be so negative but this is my observation.

[amanda hor$t]

system overload, can not comprehend, too busy playing mafia wars

[bing240sx]

Originally Posted by shah269

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/...m-and-eharmony

So this article is written by a PH.D english prof but...

...she illustrates perfectly the maxim that you can be dumb and even if you earn a diploma.

For those of you have been out of town, here's the story

I stopped reading after the first few errors.

I'm not a buyer of sex but i definitely get the value proposition.

Put me down in the hot wife, marriage & children are awesome camp. Some of us are lucky enough to meet a great woman early in our lives, some are luckier still to earn a great marriage. Most men don't meet that great woman and many who do haven't earned the right to be with her.