GF's Family PISSING ME OFF!

schneid4323 · 05-23-2007, 09:58 AM

Dont date white trash?

TahoeOG · 05-23-2007, 11:32 AM

damn bro that sucks. Honesty i would tell you to let her go.. If you really care about her, than have a serious talk to her and let her know this shit is effecting you THIS MUCH. If a girl is used to being around dirty shit lying around and food and cockroaches, then she will adapt and then not find a problem. When you get married she will be used to it and not find a REAL need to have to clean, and instead get you used to that living.

My girl doesn't like to come to a dirty house, my mom keeps my house keep all the time. My room is really clean but when i get lazy i leave my jeans on the chair, cologn on the computer tabel, socks on the floor, etc... When she comes over she cleans all that up... Now i don't force her to do it but she notices and asks if we could clean it up together or she will do it, so i help for the most part. Another thing is when i sleep, i wake up and just fix the bed a little and bounce.. she wants to redue the whole bed the next day if we sleep over.. Well i guess that's cool so i don't mind.

Cockroaches?? Chill bro, that's crazy. When we (family) first came to this country from peru i was 2.5 years old. We moved to east orange NJ in a building aka projects... Cockroaches weren't many but i found NO problem with them at the time. Shit when i was 4 or 5 i could remember help them up the wall and shit.. NASTY bro. Anyway, my family and i have come a LONG way since them. From Walking to the supermarket to everyone having their own bmw, etc... Now we have homes, and live in a better area. NOW, i see a cockroach and i get the chills. It's wierd.

Think about it and come to a conclusion before you talk to her... then have a SERIOUSE talk to her... And handle the problem don't just get rid of it.. If theirs nothing else that can be done and you still feel uncomfortable explore you options and get yourself another girl.

GL.

DustinDallas · 05-23-2007, 12:48 PM

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Originally Posted by schneid4323

Dont date white trash?

haha, excellent advice.

Every girl I've known/dated has been a neat freak that would probably cry if she spilled something on her shirt ..never mind the sight of a cockroach.

I'd take high-maintenance over trash any day though.

GreddyBoy858 · 05-23-2007, 01:21 PM

The biggest worry I have about this situation is that if you really like this girl, (you must to put up with that nastiness)... Just think if you guys get married or just move in together, you house will be gross too.. You can't be the only clean one in the house, it will drive you crazy. If you are the only one that cleans and she just sits there, or says its not that bad, it will never work out... I had a messy girlfriend once, she was fine as fuck, but was fucking messy.. I dumped her because I was the only one that would clean the house.. Be carefull man, she will trash your house if you move in with her...

e92phreak · 05-23-2007, 01:24 PM

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Originally Posted by GreddyBoy858

The biggest worry I have about this situation is that if you really like this girl, (you must to put up with that nastiness)... Just think if you guys get married or just move in together, you house will be gross too.. You can't be the only clean one in the house, it will drive you crazy. If you are the only one that cleans and she just sits there, or says its not that bad, it will never work out... I had a messy girlfriend once, she was fine as fuck, but was fucking messy.. I dumped her because I was the only one that would clean the house.. Be carefull man, she will trash your house if you move in with her...

GreddyBoy858, VERY good point!

Makes you think of that one episode of Friends where Ross goes to that hot chick's house and it's a disaster area, and ends up hitting or killing her pet, which was underneath a bunch of stuff.

UncleWede · 05-23-2007, 02:03 PM

I was born in D.C. and my first word was "cockroach" My mom siad she cleaned and sprayed every day, but they were still there. My dad would yell out "Cockroach" and I'd go chasing them, kinda like a dog. It's a funny story we still laugh about, and my dad still says it the same way.

Revlis · 05-23-2007, 02:04 PM

MOVE on... Seriously. If the house they are living in looks that way, it's in the blood. It's going to be carried on most likely... You don't want any part of it...

However, sounds to me like the GF is making up illnesses to avoid going diving, sounds like she is prolly terrified and doesn't want to fess up to it.

La Verdad · 05-23-2007, 02:20 PM

First off, stop going to her house. I may be assuming too much here, but you probably have your own apartment/house. No reason to subject yourself to that sort of thing. Secondly, if you really love her, just hire a maid for the family. Maids are cheap and make unpleasent things like dirty kitchens tolerable. That being said, I hope for your sake that she is a fox, b/c if she is not, get another girlfriend.

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TahoeOG Major 83 Rep 1,208 Posts Drives: e92 335i Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: NJ iTrader: (1)	damn bro that sucks. Honesty i would tell you to let her go.. If you really care about her, than have a serious talk to her and let her know this shit is effecting you THIS MUCH. If a girl is used to being around dirty shit lying around and food and cockroaches, then she will adapt and then not find a problem. When you get married she will be used to it and not find a REAL need to have to clean, and instead get you used to that living. My girl doesn't like to come to a dirty house, my mom keeps my house keep all the time. My room is really clean but when i get lazy i leave my jeans on the chair, cologn on the computer tabel, socks on the floor, etc... When she comes over she cleans all that up... Now i don't force her to do it but she notices and asks if we could clean it up together or she will do it, so i help for the most part. Another thing is when i sleep, i wake up and just fix the bed a little and bounce.. she wants to redue the whole bed the next day if we sleep over.. Well i guess that's cool so i don't mind. Cockroaches?? Chill bro, that's crazy. When we (family) first came to this country from peru i was 2.5 years old. We moved to east orange NJ in a building aka projects... Cockroaches weren't many but i found NO problem with them at the time. Shit when i was 4 or 5 i could remember help them up the wall and shit.. NASTY bro. Anyway, my family and i have come a LONG way since them. From Walking to the supermarket to everyone having their own bmw, etc... Now we have homes, and live in a better area. NOW, i see a cockroach and i get the chills. It's wierd. Think about it and come to a conclusion before you talk to her... then have a SERIOUSE talk to her... And handle the problem don't just get rid of it.. If theirs nothing else that can be done and you still feel uncomfortable explore you options and get yourself another girl. GL. __________________ Selling my winter setup, Hit me UP!
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GreddyBoy858 Mack 28 Rep 209 Posts Drives: 2006 325i Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: San Diego iTrader: (0)	The biggest worry I have about this situation is that if you really like this girl, (you must to put up with that nastiness)... Just think if you guys get married or just move in together, you house will be gross too.. You can't be the only clean one in the house, it will drive you crazy. If you are the only one that cleans and she just sits there, or says its not that bad, it will never work out... I had a messy girlfriend once, she was fine as fuck, but was fucking messy.. I dumped her because I was the only one that would clean the house.. Be carefull man, she will trash your house if you move in with her... __________________ 2006 BMW 325i / Jet Black / Black Dakota / Step / Nav w/ iDrive/ Premium / Sport / Sat Radio/ Adaptive Xenon Headlights / Debadged / Chrome Exhaust Tips / Rear Foglight Mod. / Rear DC Power Outlet Mod. / 20% Tint
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UncleWede Long Time Admirer, First Time Owner 17980 Rep 9,377 Posts Drives: G01 X3 M40i Dark Graphite Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: Oxnard, CA iTrader: (0)	I was born in D.C. and my first word was "cockroach" My mom siad she cleaned and sprayed every day, but they were still there. My dad would yell out "Cockroach" and I'd go chasing them, kinda like a dog. It's a funny story we still laugh about, and my dad still says it the same way.
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Revlis Now With 33% MORE Sarcasm Free! 157 Rep 3,462 Posts Drives: M4 i3 X3 Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: Phoenix AZ iTrader: (0)	MOVE on... Seriously. If the house they are living in looks that way, it's in the blood. It's going to be carried on most likely... You don't want any part of it... However, sounds to me like the GF is making up illnesses to avoid going diving, sounds like she is prolly terrified and doesn't want to fess up to it. __________________ A BMW is Just a Car, it doesn't make you smart, handsome, clever, better, cool, or wealthy.
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La Verdad Private First Class 8 Rep 144 Posts Drives: 2007 328i Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Ft. Lauderdale iTrader: (0)	First off, stop going to her house. I may be assuming too much here, but you probably have your own apartment/house. No reason to subject yourself to that sort of thing. Secondly, if you really love her, just hire a maid for the family. Maids are cheap and make unpleasent things like dirty kitchens tolerable. That being said, I hope for your sake that she is a fox, b/c if she is not, get another girlfriend.
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