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      02-07-2013, 11:05 PM   #23
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Seriously tho where is Shah?
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      02-08-2013, 12:28 AM   #24
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      02-08-2013, 12:57 AM   #25
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      02-08-2013, 01:23 AM   #26
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1. find a hobby and socialize
2. hit up fb friends to introduce you to people in the area
3. join community clubs (not sure if nyc has any, maybe jerzy?)

Shah will have more advice to add to the above
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      02-08-2013, 01:27 AM   #27
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      02-08-2013, 01:30 AM   #28
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Did shah get banz0r too?
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      02-08-2013, 02:07 AM   #29
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This seems a bit odd and may be part of the issue. Putting that aside...

You say you're athletic...join forums that pertain to your interests and get involved with local groups. I race bicycles (road and mountain) and I have met a ton of people that share the same interest...guys and girls. I can literally ride with a group every day of the week. It's easy to get to know people with similar interests and because it's a group activity people aren't as guarded.

Car type activities are typically a sausage fest and the girls that are around are usually just supporting their partner.

Oh, and don't try so hard...

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      02-08-2013, 05:49 AM   #30
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I am with the others about trying to hard, can put people off. Maybe try yoga, meditating or something completely opposite to the running, skiing etc.

Go and see your old friends, rumours should be cleared up, don't need that shit hanging in the air.

Spend some time talking to the people you work with, too much time spent at work for it to be a lonely experience.

Get a really cute puppy, women love em, and pets can help with loneliness.

Don't PM shah, it might push you over the edge
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      02-08-2013, 06:52 AM   #31
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Move out of NYC... that town is fun for about 3 days then you need to get back to reality. Unfortunately so many people live the NYC life every day. I couldn't do it.
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      02-08-2013, 06:53 AM   #32
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That's what is keeping me afloat. I am going skiing every other weekend with a new found ski buddies but haven't hung out with them yet and waiting for good time to strike chord.

I go running, traveling to Jackson Hole this month with a bunch of strangers to ski, so hopefully some new connections will help.

I've joined meetups recently and it seemed to help a little, I just need to go more often.
Go international! Visit interesting places with ancient ruins or other interesting places like Dubai, Tokyo, etc. Or meet other Bimmerpost users
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      02-08-2013, 08:13 AM   #33
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Don't PM shah, it might push you over the edge
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      02-08-2013, 08:35 AM   #34
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Man you got a bmw a house and a well paying job, go out have fun fuck a few girls and just date around. don't go out looking for "the one" or you'll never find her or find a female you think is the one and end up hating her and then you're really going to be depressed. Go out have a good time with the ladies and it will eventually happen.

also you need to go out and look for things to do where you can meet new. When i joined a Crossfit gym it opened up new friendships and met a lot of beautiful women. just find something you enjoy. Go Out!!!!
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      02-08-2013, 08:36 AM   #35
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Hey man, kind of in the same boat, girls wise. I just turned 30 and in the Indian culture you are looked as a disappointment if not married. Life sucks but you know what I know some very un athletic and not even good looking people that pull girls and have tons of friends. It's a little to do with your attitude and charisma, when you walk in a room, walk in with a confident smile. Read the Game its not only for how to mack on girls, but general confidence. It helped me a lot.
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      02-08-2013, 08:40 AM   #36
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drama queen..

you sound like one of my friends. get over it and just live
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      02-08-2013, 09:08 AM   #37
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time to move back in with the folks.
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      02-08-2013, 09:27 AM   #38
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I feel for you bro I kind of got the same thing going on and I am married. Friends drifted off doing their own thing now. I am so bored with life
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Post up a pic of yourself...if you are ugly nothing can help, if ur decent looking I say go to local BMW meets and find some gold diggers
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      02-08-2013, 09:45 AM   #40
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Every time you feel depressed about not having Mrs. Right, just think of those you know or here about on this forum who found Mrs. Right and Mrs. Right for some reason doesn't love you anymore. She decides to divorce you, takes all your assets, half the money your making at your high paying job, and on top of that paying her $4000 a month in alimony. At the same time your paying her she has a live in boyfriend she's bangin' and your supporting the boyfriend also that's sticking his thing in your ex woman. So think about this it could be a lot worse. Now I'm 34 not married so this isn't my circumstance, but that's what I think about. Girls can change their mind in a split second. This should do the trick. Thank you and good bye
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      02-08-2013, 09:56 AM   #41
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I think you mentioned hanging with teens at the end? Dont do that. Youre ten years older than them. With that being said, go into the city. Theres a lot you can do to meet people there.

As someone suggested start small, meet up with some other auto enthusiast. Form friends, then from there you can all go into the city for a night on the town!
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      02-08-2013, 11:09 AM   #42
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LOL..I am not worried. I am not sure, I don't like to be the one to break up or upset.

I hate f___ing around just for the sake, I am matured and looking for a mature partner to be with and do things. How do I find that kind of girl or woman?

Tried joining dating sites, but my couldn't find one.
Did you try ChristianMingle.com?
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      02-08-2013, 11:19 AM   #43
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Post up a pic of yourself...if you are ugly nothing can help, if ur decent looking I say go to local BMW meets and find some gold diggers
Interesting assessment coming from the greasy shets eater..
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Did you try ChristianMingle.com?
I am not christian and not too serious about religion. Unless you have something else in mind.
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