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      11-02-2011, 05:57 PM   #23
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meh... its pretty minor... i am asian. my dad used to smack me on the side of the head when i refuse to do my homework. i dont mean a little slap, i mean a big smack that leaves the side of my face/head all red. and yes, there was a lot of screaming and crying involved.... basically bawled like a baby.

oh and one time i did something i wasnt supposed to (wont go into specifics) and i got punched in the faced until my nose bled. at least i didnt break my nose. i wont say i didnt deserve it....

its probably why i am not as spoiled as some of the kids out there nowadays.
+1. I use to get the shit beat out of me and I actually thank my parents because of it.
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meh... its pretty minor... i am asian. my dad used to smack me on the side of the head when i refuse to do my homework. i dont mean a little slap, i mean a big smack that leaves the side of my face/head all red. and yes, there was a lot of screaming and crying involved.... basically bawled like a baby.

oh and one time i did something i wasnt supposed to (wont go into specifics) and i got punched in the faced until my nose bled. at least i didnt break my nose. i wont say i didnt deserve it....

its probably why i am not as spoiled as some of the kids out there nowadays.
I feel bad that you had to grow up in that household! Regardless of the race that's just uncalled for.
Those parents deserve to burn in hell!

I have two kids of my own and would never even think of hurting them.

Fuck that i'm pissed now I hope the parents that do this shit die slow!
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meh... its pretty minor... i am asian. my dad used to smack me on the side of the head when i refuse to do my homework. i dont mean a little slap, i mean a big smack that leaves the side of my face/head all red. and yes, there was a lot of screaming and crying involved.... basically bawled like a baby.

oh and one time i did something i wasnt supposed to (wont go into specifics) and i got punched in the faced until my nose bled. at least i didnt break my nose. i wont say i didnt deserve it....

its probably why i am not as spoiled as some of the kids out there nowadays.
agreed. i think it might be more common with immigrant families because that's how they were raised as well..

i used to get hit in the ass with a clothes hanger lol while kneeling on wood floors. then i had to sit in the corner on my knees for an hour haha. was not fun.

if they don't go overboard you turn out allright.
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For those of you that think it is minor or not that bad, I feel for you. What that girl was subjected to and what some of you have had done to you is child abuse. If someone did that to you in your adult life they would be jailed and you would press charges.
I was disciplined as a child and a teen and got my ass beat a few times but never to that extent. I hope you can break the cycle of abuse, as a parent myself I could never bring myself to do that.
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Post the reddit link, fuck this guy is an animal. She probably didnt post it till she was able to move out into a safer household.
Here is the reddit link: http://www.reddit.com/r/WTF/comments...for_using_the/

Police Department seems to be reviewing the case now
http://www.aransascountytx.gov/courtatlaw/?resub=true
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meh... its pretty minor... i am asian. my dad used to smack me on the side of the head when i refuse to do my homework. i dont mean a little slap, i mean a big smack that leaves the side of my face/head all red. and yes, there was a lot of screaming and crying involved.... basically bawled like a baby.

oh and one time i did something i wasnt supposed to (wont go into specifics) and i got punched in the faced until my nose bled. at least i didnt break my nose. i wont say i didnt deserve it....

its probably why i am not as spoiled as some of the kids out there nowadays.
Lol I know where your coming from! My parents gave me a few big ones and then I learned my lesson, but this shit just lasted too long!
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As other folks with foreign parents have stated I didn't see anything extreme. Did it last longer than necessary? Probably. But the father didn't punch her, kick her, beat her with a bat, or whip her above the waste.

Michael Jackson got beat and he turned out alright.
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meh... its pretty minor... i am asian. my dad used to smack me on the side of the head when i refuse to do my homework. i dont mean a little slap, i mean a big smack that leaves the side of my face/head all red. and yes, there was a lot of screaming and crying involved.... basically bawled like a baby.

oh and one time i did something i wasnt supposed to (wont go into specifics) and i got punched in the faced until my nose bled. at least i didnt break my nose. i wont say i didnt deserve it....

its probably why i am not as spoiled as some of the kids out there nowadays.
yup, im asian i know what you mean
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I think you all fail to realize this girl has Cerebral Palsy...


At any rate..


This guy is fucked on so many levels. This girl is going to regret posting this video, unless she was like molested by him or something..... She ruined her dad's life
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Yes the girl has a sickness but damn getting beat with a belt is nothing, try getting beat with bamboo sticks, wire hangers, pots and pans, broom sticks. The thing about Asian parents is that what ever they have in their hands, they will throw it at you. Like other Asians on this forum have said, Asian kids gets the worse kind of beatings and look how we came out, we're technically running the world.
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we're technically running the world.
Lol.. Go away

BOOOOOO
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Lol.. Go away

BOOOOOO
lol with 17.3 million asians living in the states, were not going away anytime buddy
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I guess there was a reason why the dad hated technology after all.
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poor girl didnt deserve that, i couldnt finish watching it.
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lol with 17.3 million asians living in the states, were not going away anytime buddy
Didnt mean it like THAT

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Yes the girl has a sickness but damn getting beat with a belt is nothing, try getting beat with bamboo sticks, wire hangers, pots and pans, broom sticks. The thing about Asian parents is that what ever they have in their hands, they will throw it at you. Like other Asians on this forum have said, Asian kids gets the worse kind of beatings and look how we came out, we're technically running the world.

wire hangers and the metal part of the belt suck! especially the soap and pepper in the eyes
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In my experience, respect is earned, not beaten into someone. I hate to break it to you guys but if you were punched in the face as a child, you are a victim of child abuse. Blaming it on cultural differences is a cop out. I'm Irish... does that give me a legitimate excuse to be an alcoholic? Certainly not.
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My brother and I were disciplined harshly growing up (Yes we're Asian), but did we ever report anything to the police or anything...No. That's because we were only disciplined when we did something stupid. Yeah we cried and resisted and I've had everything from a whip to the belt and spatula and I still love and respect my parents.

What this video shows is just a snippet of what has happened to this girl, and for her to record and post this means she does not love or respect her parents. This is abuse plain and simple. My parents hit me to discipline me never did I feel that my parents hated me I knew what I did wrong, you can feel the hatred/anger from the dad in this vid.

On a side note my older brother had it way worse than I did and he has never laid a hand on any of his children, and they are the most respectful bunch of kids I ever met.
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Spanking wasn't bad but it lasted a bit toooo long. The most disturbing thing is the dad not wanting to stop until he felt that the girl was humiliated!
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In my experience, respect is earned, not beaten into someone. I hate to break it to you guys but if you were punched in the face as a child, you are a victim of child abuse. Blaming it on cultural differences is a cop out. I'm Irish... does that give me a legitimate excuse to be an alcoholic? Certainly not.
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Spanking wasn't bad but it lasted a bit toooo long. The most disturbing thing is the dad not wanting to stop until he felt that the girl was humiliated!
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In my experience, respect is earned, not beaten into someone. I hate to break it to you guys but if you were punched in the face as a child, you are a victim of child abuse. Blaming it on cultural differences is a cop out. I'm Irish... does that give me a legitimate excuse to be an alcoholic? Certainly not.
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