E90Post
 


MINHS Auto Care Center
 
BMW 3-Series (E90 E92) Forum > BIMMERPOST Universal Forums > Off-Topic Discussions Board > Isn't anyone single anymore?



Reply
 
Thread Tools Search this Thread
      01-14-2006, 10:43 PM   #1
deutschmann59
Captain
 
Drives: 2006 325i
Join Date: Mar 2005
Location: e90post.com

Posts: 735
iTrader: (0)

Isn't anyone single anymore?

Here it is--another saturday night, and here I am doing nothing except reading posts on the forum. Usually not a bad thing, but I wish I had something to do or somewhere to go...

I usually don't like to get into posting personal troubles, so sorry in advance, but I really am angry. I can't believe how hard it is to meet girls. And everyone I do meet is already in a relationship. It makes me wonder how these girls got into relationships to begin with since the whole world is obviously unavailable.

I don't get it...I go to the gym everyday (but there are never any girls there), and yet I still never meet anyone. And every once in a while I'll see a girl I went to high school with, but then I check out their profile on myspace, and find out they're already involved. Or once in a great while, I'll meet someone and ask her out, but guess what? She's got a b/f. This happens every time...I get shot down before I even have a chance because of this. Every time! What the hell!!!

Maybe that's the motivation people have to stay in relationships...because being back on the market sucks so bad. I don't know. Any thoughts? Or am I the only one?

Last edited by deutschmann59; 01-02-2007 at 04:53 PM.
deutschmann59 is offline   United_States
0
Reply With Quote
      01-14-2006, 10:50 PM   #2
kobechrome
Captain
 
kobechrome's Avatar
 
Drives: 2013 F30 335xi
Join Date: Dec 2005
Location: Ashburn, VA

Posts: 700
iTrader: (0)

Garage List
Sorry dude. I'm married - but just try to think about it less. It will happen when you least expect it.
__________________
kobechrome is offline   United_States
0
Reply With Quote
      01-14-2006, 11:09 PM   #3
Curt3s
In your rear view mirror making funny faces.
 
Curt3s's Avatar
 
Drives: '06 325i
Join Date: Oct 2005
Location: S.F. CA

Posts: 127
iTrader: (0)

Garage List
2006 325i  [0.00]
I've been with my girlfriend for 2.5 years.

I can see where your coming from.

And I can imagine, alot of people feel the way you do. And all I can mention is....alot of people cheat.

I don't condone that, and wouldn't participate on either end of it, because I think I would feel devalued as a person.
__________________

'06 325i - Premium - Sport - iDrive Navigation - Bluetooth Cradle - Sparkling Graphite - Grey Interior - Aluminum Trim (GT4 330 Pictured)

"And with the amount of power he has in that BMW he is just leaving them behind right now."
Curt3s is offline  
0
Reply With Quote
      01-14-2006, 11:15 PM   #4
BMW E90
Major General
 
BMW E90's Avatar
 
Drives: E90 335i
Join Date: Nov 2005
Location: Around the Bay

Posts: 8,210
iTrader: (8)

yeah I know how you feel. Even though I chose not to go out tonight, I understand what it's like to have nothing to do. All the girls I know are taken too. And the girls that like me are...let's just say Im not interested. Sometimes I do wish I had a gf to go hang out with. But it seems like they're all taken. I guess when it comes it comes.
BMW E90 is offline   United_States
0
Reply With Quote
      01-15-2006, 12:42 AM   #5
SCA
Brigadier General
 
SCA's Avatar
 
Drives: 2006 330i
Join Date: Apr 2005
Location: TN

Posts: 3,018
iTrader: (0)

Garage List
2006 330i  [0.00]
I've been at a local sports bar tonight, very busy and has recently grown in size (sq ft). All I have to say is "I'm old..." I ran into way too many people from high school and I have been out for 15 years. Most of them are still single too, never married with no children. At least I have that over them.

BTW, what puzzles me is them amount of people that I went to high school with and then later attended a large state university in the same city, are still living here. I'd love to get out of here!

Run Forrest, Run!
SCA is offline   United_States
0
Reply With Quote
      01-15-2006, 12:54 AM   #6
JamieA
Colonel
 
JamieA's Avatar
 
Drives: E90 325i SG
Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: Adelaide, Australia

Posts: 2,147
iTrader: (0)

Send a message via MSN to JamieA
I have been single a while and am loving it. I get to do my own thing and not have to answer to a partner, and I get to enjoy the company of a variety of people and have lots of fun along the way.

Being single is not the issue, it is being single with no one in your black book, or single and desperate because you don't feel like a whole person unless you have an "other half".

You already are a whole person.

Enjoy your time single, soon enough some woman will come along and the party will be over, you will be in love and settling down, so enjoy the ride mate.

Everytime I have met a long term partner it has been when I am really enjoying life being single, then BAM!! along comes this person who crawls in under my skin.

When you go looking for it, you push it away - desperation is a very ugly cologne, and the women can smell it a mile off.

If what you are saying is that you aren't bumping into enough eligible women, the start doing different thing, go different places, change gym, whatever. Just do it with the right attitude, nothing attracts people faster than a confident, happy person.
__________________
'05 E90 325i 6sp Man SG 118,032km on the odo (retired) | '06 E90 325i Step SG 121,021km on the odo (retired)
'08 E90 325i LCI Step SG 130,024km on the odo (retired)
'13 D30 328i M-Sport Step | Estoril Blue | Black/Aluminimum | Pro Nav | Xenon HBA | Lane Change Assist 1,760km on the odo
JamieA is offline   Australia
0
Reply With Quote
      01-15-2006, 12:55 AM   #7
NaTuReB0Y
Powered By 36DD
 
NaTuReB0Y's Avatar
 
Drives: 2006 E90
Join Date: Jul 2005
Location: Inland Empire

Posts: 7,381
iTrader: (12)

Good things will come to those who wait.............



Better things will come to those who don't.............


Words of wisdom..........
__________________
2006 E90 330i Jet Black | 20" WORK VS-XX | FK452 | H&R Sport on Koni Yellow | REMUS QUAD
NaTuReB0Y is offline   United_States
0
Reply With Quote
      01-15-2006, 12:58 AM   #8
JamieA
Colonel
 
JamieA's Avatar
 
Drives: E90 325i SG
Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: Adelaide, Australia

Posts: 2,147
iTrader: (0)

Send a message via MSN to JamieA
Well put Natureboy
__________________
'05 E90 325i 6sp Man SG 118,032km on the odo (retired) | '06 E90 325i Step SG 121,021km on the odo (retired)
'08 E90 325i LCI Step SG 130,024km on the odo (retired)
'13 D30 328i M-Sport Step | Estoril Blue | Black/Aluminimum | Pro Nav | Xenon HBA | Lane Change Assist 1,760km on the odo
JamieA is offline   Australia
0
Reply With Quote
      01-15-2006, 01:09 AM   #9
BMW E90
Major General
 
BMW E90's Avatar
 
Drives: E90 335i
Join Date: Nov 2005
Location: Around the Bay

Posts: 8,210
iTrader: (8)

Quote:
Originally Posted by JamieA
I have been single a while and am loving it. I get to do my own thing and not have to answer to a partner, and I get to enjoy the company of a variety of people and have lots of fun along the way.

Being single is not the issue, it is being single with no one in your black book, or single and desperate because you don't feel like a whole person unless you have an "other half".

You already are a whole person.

Enjoy your time single, soon enough some woman will come along and the party will be over, you will be in love and settling down, so enjoy the ride mate.

Everytime I have met a long term partner it has been when I am really enjoying life being single, then BAM!! along comes this person who crawls in under my skin.

When you go looking for it, you push it away - desperation is a very ugly cologne, and the women can smell it a mile off.

If what you are saying is that you aren't bumping into enough eligible women, the start doing different thing, go different places, change gym, whatever. Just do it with the right attitude, nothing attracts people faster than a confident, happy person.


Yeah I was gonna say. Enjoy it while you can cus once you have someone, you'd wish that you can just be alone sometimes. Someone once told me " take it one day at a time cus when you look for something you will push it back" and it will take longer for you to find it. Shoot i've been single for a while now and it hasnt really bothered me at all. Just be happy and be yourself...^_^
BMW E90 is offline   United_States
0
Reply With Quote
      01-15-2006, 01:23 AM   #10
SCA
Brigadier General
 
SCA's Avatar
 
Drives: 2006 330i
Join Date: Apr 2005
Location: TN

Posts: 3,018
iTrader: (0)

Garage List
2006 330i  [0.00]
Quote:
Originally Posted by NaTuReB0Y
Good things will come to those who wait.............



Better things will come to those who don't.............


Words of wisdom..........


Hmm...calling BS! Been there, done that. Of course...nothing ventured, nothing gained.
SCA is offline   United_States
0
Reply With Quote
      01-15-2006, 01:33 AM   #11
Enroutte
Private First Class
 
Enroutte's Avatar
 
Drives: ;D
Join Date: Oct 2005
Location: Undecided.

Posts: 160
iTrader: (0)

I'm single! I don't think it's all that bad being single. I think I'mo one of those people who are just never really content.

When I was in a relationship, I wanted to be single. Now that I'm single, I'm thinking that I want a boyfriend again. I dunno. It's really not that bad though! You have WAY more time for yourself and your other friends.AND AND!! instead of paying for 2, u only haveto pay for yourself. DEFINITE PLUS
Enroutte is offline  
0
Reply With Quote
      01-15-2006, 01:45 AM   #12
Ghunger
Major
 
Ghunger's Avatar
 
Drives: 330i
Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: Seattle, WA

Posts: 1,025
iTrader: (0)

I feel your pain sharp. Sometimes I wish I had a g/f to spend time with, but I figure I just need to wait for the right person. I agree with enroutte too, it's not all bad being single.
Ghunger is offline   United_States
0
Reply With Quote
      01-15-2006, 01:53 AM   #13
JamieA
Colonel
 
JamieA's Avatar
 
Drives: E90 325i SG
Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: Adelaide, Australia

Posts: 2,147
iTrader: (0)

Send a message via MSN to JamieA
I agree with you Ghunger - being alone is prefereable to being with the wrong person.
__________________
'05 E90 325i 6sp Man SG 118,032km on the odo (retired) | '06 E90 325i Step SG 121,021km on the odo (retired)
'08 E90 325i LCI Step SG 130,024km on the odo (retired)
'13 D30 328i M-Sport Step | Estoril Blue | Black/Aluminimum | Pro Nav | Xenon HBA | Lane Change Assist 1,760km on the odo
JamieA is offline   Australia
0
Reply With Quote
      01-15-2006, 01:57 AM   #14
SCA
Brigadier General
 
SCA's Avatar
 
Drives: 2006 330i
Join Date: Apr 2005
Location: TN

Posts: 3,018
iTrader: (0)

Garage List
2006 330i  [0.00]
Quote:
Originally Posted by Enroutte
I'm single! I don't think it's all that bad being single.

You're young though...lucky you! Of course at your age I wasn't single for very long, just only in-between relationships.
SCA is offline   United_States
0
Reply With Quote
      01-15-2006, 01:58 AM   #15
NaTuReB0Y
Powered By 36DD
 
NaTuReB0Y's Avatar
 
Drives: 2006 E90
Join Date: Jul 2005
Location: Inland Empire

Posts: 7,381
iTrader: (12)

Quote:
Originally Posted by sharp1183
Here it is--another saturday night, and here I am doing nothing except reading posts on the forum. Usually not a bad thing, but I wish I had something to do or somewhere to go...

I usually don't like to get into posting personal troubles, so sorry in advance, but I really am angry. I can't believe how hard it is to meet girls. And everyone I do meet is already in a relationship. It makes me wonder how these girls got into relationships to begin with since the whole world is obviously unavailable.

I don't get it...I go to the gym everyday (but there are never any girls there), I take boxing classes twice a week, and yet I still never meet anyone. And every once in a while I'll see a girl I went to high school with, but then I check out their profile on myspace, and find out they're already involved. Or once in a great while, I'll meet someone and ask her out, but guess what? She's got a b/f. This happens every time...I get shot down before I even have a chance because of this. Every time! What the hell!!!

Maybe that's the motivation people have to stay in relationships...because being back on the market sucks so bad. I don't know. Any thoughts? Or am I the only one?
You forgot Church......take a shot at it........
lots of virgin females there......I think.....hahaha!
__________________
2006 E90 330i Jet Black | 20" WORK VS-XX | FK452 | H&R Sport on Koni Yellow | REMUS QUAD
NaTuReB0Y is offline   United_States
0
Reply With Quote
      01-15-2006, 02:00 AM   #16
findtom
Colonel
 
findtom's Avatar
 
Drives: E60 545i
Join Date: Oct 2005
Location: Toronto, Canada

Posts: 2,656
iTrader: (0)

Garage List
2005 545i  [0.00]
Trust me, there are lots of perfectly good women out there thinking the same thing you are. How old are you?

Last edited by findtom; 01-15-2006 at 03:30 AM.
findtom is offline   Canada
0
Reply With Quote
      01-15-2006, 02:00 AM   #17
SCA
Brigadier General
 
SCA's Avatar
 
Drives: 2006 330i
Join Date: Apr 2005
Location: TN

Posts: 3,018
iTrader: (0)

Garage List
2006 330i  [0.00]
I'd like a good female friend with similar interest (boating, snow & water skiing, european autos, and etc.) and see where it goes from there. No rush... As we say in the south, "There's no reason to jump from the frying pan to the over." aka, I've been burned badly before (marriage). At my age, single equals more $ for myself to enjoy life. My last GF was a total slacker, and did nothing but sponge off me. :mad:
SCA is offline   United_States
0
Reply With Quote
      01-15-2006, 02:03 AM   #18
NaTuReB0Y
Powered By 36DD
 
NaTuReB0Y's Avatar
 
Drives: 2006 E90
Join Date: Jul 2005
Location: Inland Empire

Posts: 7,381
iTrader: (12)

Being single is not that bad.......once I got married......

I had to give up: Comics......collectible cards........hot wheels.....drinking with the boys!
__________________
2006 E90 330i Jet Black | 20" WORK VS-XX | FK452 | H&R Sport on Koni Yellow | REMUS QUAD
NaTuReB0Y is offline   United_States
0
Reply With Quote
      01-15-2006, 02:05 AM   #19
BMW E90
Major General
 
BMW E90's Avatar
 
Drives: E90 335i
Join Date: Nov 2005
Location: Around the Bay

Posts: 8,210
iTrader: (8)

[quote=findtom]Trust me, there are lots of perfectly good women out there thinking the same thing you are.

[quote]


took the words right outta my mouth
BMW E90 is offline   United_States
0
Reply With Quote
      01-15-2006, 02:12 AM   #20
JamieA
Colonel
 
JamieA's Avatar
 
Drives: E90 325i SG
Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: Adelaide, Australia

Posts: 2,147
iTrader: (0)

Send a message via MSN to JamieA
Quote:
Originally Posted by NaTuReB0Y
You forgot Church......take a shot at it........
lots of virgin females there......I think.....hahaha!
Church is a great place to pick up women. In the old days I used to do very well there
__________________
'05 E90 325i 6sp Man SG 118,032km on the odo (retired) | '06 E90 325i Step SG 121,021km on the odo (retired)
'08 E90 325i LCI Step SG 130,024km on the odo (retired)
'13 D30 328i M-Sport Step | Estoril Blue | Black/Aluminimum | Pro Nav | Xenon HBA | Lane Change Assist 1,760km on the odo
JamieA is offline   Australia
0
Reply With Quote
      01-15-2006, 02:14 AM   #21
Enroutte
Private First Class
 
Enroutte's Avatar
 
Drives: ;D
Join Date: Oct 2005
Location: Undecided.

Posts: 160
iTrader: (0)

Quote:
Originally Posted by SCA
My last GF was a total slacker, and did nothing but sponge off me. :mad:

my ex did that! word of advice: drop those people from the get-go. theyre only milking you for what you're worth.
Enroutte is offline  
0
Reply With Quote
      01-15-2006, 02:14 AM   #22
E90-4life
auto pilot
 
E90-4life's Avatar
 
Drives: E60 M5 chilln on slicks
Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: SoCal

Posts: 822
iTrader: (0)

Lots of females out there, sometimes you have to stop looking and look more at yourself(if you will) - concentrate on you, have fun, do what you do, most importantly be active about what you want in life, and in the midst of all those things happening someone will notice you, or you'll notice someone that will notice you. LoL, I'm no God when it comes to realtionship advice, but I have a solid idea of what I'm talking about. Try not to go based off of what others say, as everyone's experiences are unique. Lastly, whatever you do, be audacious. Otherwise, don't expect ANYTHING.
E90-4life is offline  
0
Reply With Quote
Reply

Bookmarks

Thread Tools Search this Thread
Search this Thread:

Advanced Search

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Forum Jump


All times are GMT -5. The time now is 11:37 PM.




e90post
Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.7.0
Copyright ©2000 - 2014, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
1Addicts.com, BIMMERPOST.com, E90Post.com, F30Post.com, M3Post.com, ZPost.com, 5Post.com, 6Post.com, 7Post.com, XBimmers.com logo and trademark are properties of BIMMERPOST